Hello. Im new here and i have a question. Ive been with my girlfriend for a few years now and i always knew her as skinny. But in the past 6 months or so she's gained alot of weight. Well to my standards it alot. Like 15 pounds maybe. Ive told her that i didnt like this and i like thin girls. And we got into many fights and i made her feel really bad. (yes i know im shallow). She's been trying whenever she can to excersise but im not really noticing any difference. But... for some reason i kind of diveloped a sort of facination for this extra weight. And in some way it kinda turns me on now. But im still ashamed to be with a slightly chubby girl. I give her a hard time but at the same time it get's me goin. I dont know weather to accept this or to trust my feelings of liking thinner girls. Like i said. im confused.
Im a very fit guy. I dont like myself being slightly overweight in the least. In fact when i start seeing my sixpack go away it work my arse off to get it back again.
And in a way i just want my girlfriend to feel the same way. but theres always the complaining about the laziness and she's tired.
Dont get me wrong. i try to encourage her by working out with her. But i cant always because i work so much...
i just dont know what to think.
What do you guys think.
Im a very fit guy. I dont like myself being slightly overweight in the least. In fact when i start seeing my sixpack go away it work my arse off to get it back again.
And in a way i just want my girlfriend to feel the same way. but theres always the complaining about the laziness and she's tired.
Dont get me wrong. i try to encourage her by working out with her. But i cant always because i work so much...
i just dont know what to think.
What do you guys think.