Probably not, but I just thought I'd mention it. I love big woman, but I know a lot of big woman are even reluctent to talk to me. I'm no skin and bone at250 at 5'6" I'm the least of skinny's. I know what it feels like to be judged by your weight. Its not fun, but at the same time, who gives a damn about them, they don't pay my bills. To each his own, I'm stuck in a marriage with a whole bunch of drama, and weight control and self esteem is the least of them. I want to vent here, but when I vent I write things out of bad judgement, and I don't mean it that way.