The Weatherman
Well-Known Member
This is a question that has been worrying me for awhile. Not that I am some prude (though I was raised Catholic, lol)... it's just that I worry about objectifying women, which is something I never want to do.
And so part of me always feels a bit guilty or ashamed when I visit bbwpinups or similar sites. For all the 'tasteful' veneer of such sites, when it comes down to it, they exist for one reason and one reason only.
And yet I keep coming back. For the most part, I'm just resigned to the reality that I'm an 18 year old male who hasn't had a date in 5 months, and who would probably go nuts without the sexual release that such sites provide.
So now I have two questions:
1) Why is it that there are so many more sites featuring women for the purposes of turning men on than vice versa?
-I read somewhere that the visual component of male sexuality is much more prominent than the visual component of female sexuality. So that merely looking at hot girls in various states of undress is a fairly intense sexual experience for males, whereas females respond more to touch and emotion... obviously that's a HUGE generalization, but I think there's something to it. So maybe the medium of magazines and the internet is more conducive to pleasing sexually frustrated guys than sexually frustrated gals.
2) Can porn be liberating for women?
-This site has opened my eyes to this possibility. So many of the beautiful women here have gone their whole lives thinking that because of their weight, they were unattractive, until awakening to the world of bbw/FA and realizing that they have sex appeal too. Maybe having a paysite affirms the fact that they are sexy, which can be a very good and healthy thing.
So anyways, I would appreciate thoughts on this subject...
And so part of me always feels a bit guilty or ashamed when I visit bbwpinups or similar sites. For all the 'tasteful' veneer of such sites, when it comes down to it, they exist for one reason and one reason only.
And yet I keep coming back. For the most part, I'm just resigned to the reality that I'm an 18 year old male who hasn't had a date in 5 months, and who would probably go nuts without the sexual release that such sites provide.
So now I have two questions:
1) Why is it that there are so many more sites featuring women for the purposes of turning men on than vice versa?
-I read somewhere that the visual component of male sexuality is much more prominent than the visual component of female sexuality. So that merely looking at hot girls in various states of undress is a fairly intense sexual experience for males, whereas females respond more to touch and emotion... obviously that's a HUGE generalization, but I think there's something to it. So maybe the medium of magazines and the internet is more conducive to pleasing sexually frustrated guys than sexually frustrated gals.
2) Can porn be liberating for women?
-This site has opened my eyes to this possibility. So many of the beautiful women here have gone their whole lives thinking that because of their weight, they were unattractive, until awakening to the world of bbw/FA and realizing that they have sex appeal too. Maybe having a paysite affirms the fact that they are sexy, which can be a very good and healthy thing.
So anyways, I would appreciate thoughts on this subject...
