Hi everyone!
I've been lurking around here a while now (but joined today) and I'm not sure what to say but I'll just start and see what happens (wish me luck in actually hitting that "Submit New Thead" button.)
I'm 36 and recently had my heart broken by a man who spent a year and half of my life actually embarassed to be seen in public with me. Naturally, when he actually said so (I suspected it), I showed him the door. I have had self-esteem issues for many years, however, this man 'loved' me in private like no other, and having him confirm my worst fears... well, it really stinks, and it's really set me back a couple of steps.
So, where I'm at now is quite literally putting my foot down. I am done feeling like I don't deserve a place on this planet because of my weight. Done. I'm smart, I'm beautiful, I have much to offer, and I will not settle for anything short of respect and admiration for what I am. Simple.
Now, this is where you guys come in *grin* This is where I thank you for sharing your thoughts on here. They inspire and they affirm.
I look forward to being a part of this community
Cheers!
I've been lurking around here a while now (but joined today) and I'm not sure what to say but I'll just start and see what happens (wish me luck in actually hitting that "Submit New Thead" button.)
I'm 36 and recently had my heart broken by a man who spent a year and half of my life actually embarassed to be seen in public with me. Naturally, when he actually said so (I suspected it), I showed him the door. I have had self-esteem issues for many years, however, this man 'loved' me in private like no other, and having him confirm my worst fears... well, it really stinks, and it's really set me back a couple of steps.
So, where I'm at now is quite literally putting my foot down. I am done feeling like I don't deserve a place on this planet because of my weight. Done. I'm smart, I'm beautiful, I have much to offer, and I will not settle for anything short of respect and admiration for what I am. Simple.
Now, this is where you guys come in *grin* This is where I thank you for sharing your thoughts on here. They inspire and they affirm.
I look forward to being a part of this community
Cheers!
