flip.the.nuts
Well-Known Member
I have been recently chatting online to my ex-girlfriend. Besides the talk about how we are each getting on, etc, I have mentioned that I am more comfortable with my sexuality now (which is liking bigger women, duh, lol), and she has really irritated me by saying stuff like...
"yeah, I just don't see why you'd be embarrassed, I mean, aren't you too old for such an attitude now? No offence."
Then I say a lot of guys older than me have trouble admitting they like bigger girls, and she says the following...
"yeah I guess. Maybe guys are different or something, i don't know. Plus I've always been quite mature in things like this. You're perfectly entitled to think it's a big deal."
I think she's being a bit patronising in the last message. What really annoys me is that since I have had a sexuality I have been struggling with all the media pressure about skinny women are better. I've only recently within the last 6 months, been quite open about my preference (i'm 20 now), and when I tell people about it, they come at me saying that there was no big deal in the first place. This is so annoying, because that means "this was all made up in your head, people were never going to slate you for liking big girls, you've done this all to yourself you immature moron".
Anyone else get this?
"yeah, I just don't see why you'd be embarrassed, I mean, aren't you too old for such an attitude now? No offence."
Then I say a lot of guys older than me have trouble admitting they like bigger girls, and she says the following...
"yeah I guess. Maybe guys are different or something, i don't know. Plus I've always been quite mature in things like this. You're perfectly entitled to think it's a big deal."
I think she's being a bit patronising in the last message. What really annoys me is that since I have had a sexuality I have been struggling with all the media pressure about skinny women are better. I've only recently within the last 6 months, been quite open about my preference (i'm 20 now), and when I tell people about it, they come at me saying that there was no big deal in the first place. This is so annoying, because that means "this was all made up in your head, people were never going to slate you for liking big girls, you've done this all to yourself you immature moron".
Anyone else get this?
