exile in thighville
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i currently find myself in an open relationship after almost two years of monogamy during my first two years of college. nearly everyone i've talked to says that it's a bad idea, though nearly all those people agreed the rules that me and my girlfriend set for ourselves are more carefully thought out than they expected. i was just wondering if anyone on here has successfully had an open relationship or "swung," temporarily (or to this day) without dooming the original relationship, and if they have any tips on how to keep everything fun rather than stressful and paranoid? fyi...we're in college, just in case people want to know why we're doing this. we wanted to try it while we're still allowed to be young and stupid.