I'm Ryan 21yr, go to Winthrop University and I've been browsing Dimensions since 97. Finally posting!
OK, I was wondering how many Proud FA's there are out there? I guess you could consider this the difference between the guys who are in the "closet" and not. I think that every FA should be proud of their attraction and not let society try and mold them into someone they are not. This issue comes about becuase I've had to deal with it in my family, but they obviously found out when I started to introduce girlfriends that i've had and they noticed that they all were bigger girls and accepted the fact that I liked bigger girls. It only hurts the guys that are trying to hide their desires. This topic really comes up when a guy is with their "guy friends" and the other guys like the typical skinny girls, and when they see a bigger girl they sometimes make crude comments. This is where a true FA should express his likings and not make mean comments but actual compliments ie "she's actually pretty cute". And if the guys react in a negative way then they aren't your true friends anyways and there's no need to hang around people who don't respect others sexual attractions.
A question for the ladies...What do you think an FA or any guy should say to guys that say rude things about bigger women?
The more us FA's and people for size acceptance stand up for ourselves and "come out", the more society as a whole will view bigger girls in a beautiful way.
Dimensions is almost like a gateway for a seperate group from society to share and express themselves, knowing that they will get mostly positive feedback from everyone who is interested in Dimensions. But in the "real world" we are much more hesitant about expressing these views because of how our society is. Though I think it would be in our best interest to share some of those feelings with society to help promote the fact that Big is Beautiful!
-Ryan
Administrator: please excuse the duplicate post of this on the weight board.
OK, I was wondering how many Proud FA's there are out there? I guess you could consider this the difference between the guys who are in the "closet" and not. I think that every FA should be proud of their attraction and not let society try and mold them into someone they are not. This issue comes about becuase I've had to deal with it in my family, but they obviously found out when I started to introduce girlfriends that i've had and they noticed that they all were bigger girls and accepted the fact that I liked bigger girls. It only hurts the guys that are trying to hide their desires. This topic really comes up when a guy is with their "guy friends" and the other guys like the typical skinny girls, and when they see a bigger girl they sometimes make crude comments. This is where a true FA should express his likings and not make mean comments but actual compliments ie "she's actually pretty cute". And if the guys react in a negative way then they aren't your true friends anyways and there's no need to hang around people who don't respect others sexual attractions.
A question for the ladies...What do you think an FA or any guy should say to guys that say rude things about bigger women?
The more us FA's and people for size acceptance stand up for ourselves and "come out", the more society as a whole will view bigger girls in a beautiful way.
Dimensions is almost like a gateway for a seperate group from society to share and express themselves, knowing that they will get mostly positive feedback from everyone who is interested in Dimensions. But in the "real world" we are much more hesitant about expressing these views because of how our society is. Though I think it would be in our best interest to share some of those feelings with society to help promote the fact that Big is Beautiful!
-Ryan
Administrator: please excuse the duplicate post of this on the weight board.
