I have been viewing these boards for a number of months and also using personal life experiences I have come to the conclusion that women in general do not like big guys? I have been big all of my life being nearly 200lbs at 14years old although I was 6' and played rugby alot. I'm now in my early 30's and have been bigger and smaller than I am now.
At my height I was working in the personal security industry. The weight training and hours made my weight and girth climb in an upwards direction leveling at around 325lbs. Although secretly I wouldn't of mided being bigger say 350 to 380lbs. WELL .... Heres the crunch all the women I have dated have all said that 'they loved my the way I was' and 'been attracted by my size' but then over the preceeding months/years slim me down. Well it must of worked I'm now 230lbs and at 6'3" I can only be described as slim.
So then girls/women I can only ask why? Are there any genuine women out there that actually like their guys big or ones that like their men to grow? Also any guys that feel the same? Would love to hear from you.
At my height I was working in the personal security industry. The weight training and hours made my weight and girth climb in an upwards direction leveling at around 325lbs. Although secretly I wouldn't of mided being bigger say 350 to 380lbs. WELL .... Heres the crunch all the women I have dated have all said that 'they loved my the way I was' and 'been attracted by my size' but then over the preceeding months/years slim me down. Well it must of worked I'm now 230lbs and at 6'3" I can only be described as slim.
So then girls/women I can only ask why? Are there any genuine women out there that actually like their guys big or ones that like their men to grow? Also any guys that feel the same? Would love to hear from you.
