When I look at photos of BBW dances I wonder why so many women there are not what I would call large. Perhaps the photographer wasn't allowed to take photos of the larger women there but it seems to me that the majority of women attending those dances are not large at all. I certainly don't call them big! Were some of these women larger in the past? It just makes me wonder about how many women are accepting their fatness and how many are doing things to get smaller and lighter. I am not blaming anyone. Everyone can do exactly what is in her interest to do. However, it seems to me that so-called fat acceptance is something that only a minority supports. In real life many women are doing things to reduce their fat. Why these smaller women attend BBW dances is a mystery. It surely cannot be what admirers want to see.