Theatrmuse/Kara
Warrior Momma
Today I need a blog! LOL! I have two adult children..........one lives at home while in college and the oldest is 29 years old and married. Both she and her husband have mental disabilities and have applied for disability which can take a few years. In the meantime, My husband and I have put a downpayment on a home for them, pay monthly mortagage and bills etc.
My son-in-law is beginning a web design and programming business and has a client firm in London. After spending their entire first payment from London.......1200 dollars...on new computers and stuff for the business. (After promising to pay us back some!) Now I find out that the London company wants them both to come to London..offering to pay for airfair and hotel so that they can have a business meeting. Great???? They have no money of their own for passports, food or other travel expenses. Guess who is going to come up as the bad guys in this situation?????????
I am tired, my friends. When is enough ENOUGH? I know they have these mental disorders that require medication and give them daily difficulties, but we are retired. I only teach part time and my husband is caregiver to his Mom in another state half of his time.
I don't mean to bitch, really I don't. However, I feel I am in a hole and will never come out alive. LOL!
I know I am going to hear the advice of kick them to the curb, stop giving, but I CANNOT in good conscience........I fear for them. God has blessed my husband and I............maybe this is why, so we can help our children in this world.
Forgive my rambling. Like I told ya.........I need a blog in times like this. (or a therapist again!:doh: )
Thanks for listening, Kara
My son-in-law is beginning a web design and programming business and has a client firm in London. After spending their entire first payment from London.......1200 dollars...on new computers and stuff for the business. (After promising to pay us back some!) Now I find out that the London company wants them both to come to London..offering to pay for airfair and hotel so that they can have a business meeting. Great???? They have no money of their own for passports, food or other travel expenses. Guess who is going to come up as the bad guys in this situation?????????
I am tired, my friends. When is enough ENOUGH? I know they have these mental disorders that require medication and give them daily difficulties, but we are retired. I only teach part time and my husband is caregiver to his Mom in another state half of his time.
I don't mean to bitch, really I don't. However, I feel I am in a hole and will never come out alive. LOL!
I know I am going to hear the advice of kick them to the curb, stop giving, but I CANNOT in good conscience........I fear for them. God has blessed my husband and I............maybe this is why, so we can help our children in this world.
Forgive my rambling. Like I told ya.........I need a blog in times like this. (or a therapist again!:doh: )
Thanks for listening, Kara
