lostjacket
I found it.
So this week I went through a mini-break up (we'd only been going out for a month). Sucks right? But sometimes things don't work out for whatever reason. Such is life.
However, it wasn't until I did some deeper digging that I figured out what was the impetus for her breaking up with me - she felt like I was out of her league and was scared of losing me. Thus she decided to break it off - before I could hurt her.
I find this extremely effed up - she was beautiful, intelligent and fun. (Did I say beautiful? I meant gorgeous.) Unfortunately, she turned out to be extremely insecure about her body and couldn't seem to fathom why I thought she was so attractive. (And I wasn't exactly shy about showing her affection or telling her how unbelievably beautiful she was...)
Is there any way that this outcome could have been avoided? Or is this just an example of running head on into someone else's insecurities?
It has been a frustrating past few days to say the least - but it's my first time having experienced something like this and was wondering if anyone might have any advice?
Needless to say? Never got a chance to rock this shirt...
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However, it wasn't until I did some deeper digging that I figured out what was the impetus for her breaking up with me - she felt like I was out of her league and was scared of losing me. Thus she decided to break it off - before I could hurt her.
I find this extremely effed up - she was beautiful, intelligent and fun. (Did I say beautiful? I meant gorgeous.) Unfortunately, she turned out to be extremely insecure about her body and couldn't seem to fathom why I thought she was so attractive. (And I wasn't exactly shy about showing her affection or telling her how unbelievably beautiful she was...)
Is there any way that this outcome could have been avoided? Or is this just an example of running head on into someone else's insecurities?
It has been a frustrating past few days to say the least - but it's my first time having experienced something like this and was wondering if anyone might have any advice?
Needless to say? Never got a chance to rock this shirt...
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