I'm very new here, Im about 300lbs...all my life I've worn my jeans under my belly...it has really become a pain in the ass to wear them that way anymore...46" waste goes around my belly ....at about the belly button...if I go bigger their to big with to much extra material in the crotch area.... and if I go smaller .....well you know.....I seem to be in the no pant zone....Im not opposed to gaining more weight, I DONT want to loose any......what can I do ...is there not a pair of JEANS with an elastic wasteband that look like regular jeans?