I've been thinking about something that is a little bit like the chicken or the egg concept. From reading various threads it seems that so many FA's, encouragers, and feeders say that their tastes and/or fantasies have expanded(no pun intended) over time. And as much as I LOVE this forum, I wonder if certain areas of the site do more harm than good by feeding(ok pun intended) into fantasies that maybe weren't there originally and making the fantasies become something unattainable. Because really, where would the fantasy end. I imagine its not very different for a non FA who spends a lot of time either looking or reading porn. It seems like unrealistic expectations are created in your head. And even for the few who get to live out their fantasies are you ever really satisfied? So take me back a little: When you first found Dims was your intent to find women who were looking to eat and gain? Was it ever a thought in your head before then? Did the fantasy come first or was the fantasy created? If you had never found some of the sites you indulge in do you think it would have become your fantasy and ideal?
I hope this isn't a repeat question. I did do a search to see if it was already addressed. And please, I hope noone takes this the wrong way.
I hope this isn't a repeat question. I did do a search to see if it was already addressed. And please, I hope noone takes this the wrong way.
