I have posted several times but this is my first to start a thread. I am looking to my fellow dims people for some input and opinion sharing. This may get long so I am apologizing in advance.
I work in a small insurance office doing customer service work and I come into contact with the public everyday. There is this particular gentleman who we have had as a client for about 2 years. He has always been very nice. He always will ask how things are going and he will always ask about my son. In my opinion he stays longer than my normal client would. Well back around the first of September he calls to my work and ask me if I am seeing anyone and if I would like to have lunch with him sometime. Of course I say yes that I would like that. About a month went by and I had not heard from him about going to lunch until again he calls our office and tells me that he has not forgotten about me but that he has been very busy with work. So up until today I had yet to hear from him. He comes into the office today to pay his insurance and again same old thing. He starts talking asking me about Christmas and about my son but never mentioned going out. Today when we were talking he brought up about how long it had been since we had been in school and he ask me when I graduated and I told him so he was like so you are 38. In response to him I said yes and he was like well you know how old I am don't you. Again I said yes but that age is just a number(he is about 12 years my senior). I am at my wits end and my patience are wearing very thin with this man. I don't know if he really likes me and is just to shy to take things further or maybe he thinks he is to old for me. Then again maybe it is just wishful thinking on my part.
Any input or opinions would be greatly appreciated on how I should try and move this along.
Thanks for everyone's time :bow:
I work in a small insurance office doing customer service work and I come into contact with the public everyday. There is this particular gentleman who we have had as a client for about 2 years. He has always been very nice. He always will ask how things are going and he will always ask about my son. In my opinion he stays longer than my normal client would. Well back around the first of September he calls to my work and ask me if I am seeing anyone and if I would like to have lunch with him sometime. Of course I say yes that I would like that. About a month went by and I had not heard from him about going to lunch until again he calls our office and tells me that he has not forgotten about me but that he has been very busy with work. So up until today I had yet to hear from him. He comes into the office today to pay his insurance and again same old thing. He starts talking asking me about Christmas and about my son but never mentioned going out. Today when we were talking he brought up about how long it had been since we had been in school and he ask me when I graduated and I told him so he was like so you are 38. In response to him I said yes and he was like well you know how old I am don't you. Again I said yes but that age is just a number(he is about 12 years my senior). I am at my wits end and my patience are wearing very thin with this man. I don't know if he really likes me and is just to shy to take things further or maybe he thinks he is to old for me. Then again maybe it is just wishful thinking on my part.
Any input or opinions would be greatly appreciated on how I should try and move this along.
Thanks for everyone's time :bow:
