Chomskyesque
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I've recently realized that, in addition to my FAdom, I enjoy feeding people. (Mostly women) This realization came to me at work of all places. There was a BBW customer who had been waiting a long time for her food so I offered her a complimentary dessert. She must have sensed my FA status (FYI I wasn't creeping!) because she then gave me a knowing grin and accepted a cheesecake on the house. I'd been recognized even though I didn't realize it myself! It's kind of mind boggling to me since I've had a hard enough time figuring out why I came to like larger women. Honestly, I still don't know. Something about my development made me into a person that is attracted to large women and giving people food. It's almost as if I put my self in the role of a server, if you look at it from a power-oriented perspective.
The whole point of this post is to hopefully start a discussion that will shed some light on the whole FA thing, which is in my opinion a definite sexual orientation. By pinpointing its causes, or attempting to at least we can come to understand ourselves and learn from it.
So I ask you, what do you think made you an FA and what do you think it means?
The whole point of this post is to hopefully start a discussion that will shed some light on the whole FA thing, which is in my opinion a definite sexual orientation. By pinpointing its causes, or attempting to at least we can come to understand ourselves and learn from it.
So I ask you, what do you think made you an FA and what do you think it means?