Hi!
First time poster, long time FA. I'm sure similar questions have been asked in the past, but I wasn't around to see answers, so I'll have to hope for someone willing to pass on some tidbits of advice.
A little about me:
As mentioned above, I've always really been an FA. In my dating days, I did have some dates with bigger girls, but never had the self-confidence to stand up for my preferences when talking with friends. As a result, I never got the opportunity to go out with as many big girls as I would have liked, but at least I can't say that I never did.
Fifteen years ago, I met a wonderful girl and fell in love with her. I still love her to this day, so it certainly wasn't a mistake. While I can say that she was perfect in every way (for me), she was also thin. Love doesn't discriminate, and I sure wasn't going to miss out on marrying my love because she was smaller than what I preferred (but yes, still very attractive to me).
We've now been married for ten years. Throughout our marriage, I've loved no one else but her, keeping in mind that I would have liked for her to be bigger. Feeling that I was keeping a secret from her that I shouldn't, just last year, I told her that I find big girls attractive. To my surprise, she didn't treat this as if it was strange nor was she revolted by the admission. She seemed to take it in stride as a preference.
From that moment on, I've been encouraging her to gain weight. I make sure to have treats in the house all the time, I make sure that she is always eating a bit, and I make sure to rub her beautiful curves when they appear. She has said that she doesn't want to gain weight, but at the same time, has never turned down dessert and other fattening foods that she knows I'm giving her. In this last year, she's gone from a 125 pound size 10 to now a 140 pound size 14.
It seems that what I'm doing is working, but I'd like to hear some tidbits from anyone who has gained out there as to what worked for you. What is it that made you say that you were okay with gaining weight?
Notwithstanding any health issues, I'd love to see her top 200 pounds someday. She's aware of all of this, and is still with me, so I feel good that I'm no longer hiding.
First time poster, long time FA. I'm sure similar questions have been asked in the past, but I wasn't around to see answers, so I'll have to hope for someone willing to pass on some tidbits of advice.
A little about me:
As mentioned above, I've always really been an FA. In my dating days, I did have some dates with bigger girls, but never had the self-confidence to stand up for my preferences when talking with friends. As a result, I never got the opportunity to go out with as many big girls as I would have liked, but at least I can't say that I never did.
Fifteen years ago, I met a wonderful girl and fell in love with her. I still love her to this day, so it certainly wasn't a mistake. While I can say that she was perfect in every way (for me), she was also thin. Love doesn't discriminate, and I sure wasn't going to miss out on marrying my love because she was smaller than what I preferred (but yes, still very attractive to me).
We've now been married for ten years. Throughout our marriage, I've loved no one else but her, keeping in mind that I would have liked for her to be bigger. Feeling that I was keeping a secret from her that I shouldn't, just last year, I told her that I find big girls attractive. To my surprise, she didn't treat this as if it was strange nor was she revolted by the admission. She seemed to take it in stride as a preference.
From that moment on, I've been encouraging her to gain weight. I make sure to have treats in the house all the time, I make sure that she is always eating a bit, and I make sure to rub her beautiful curves when they appear. She has said that she doesn't want to gain weight, but at the same time, has never turned down dessert and other fattening foods that she knows I'm giving her. In this last year, she's gone from a 125 pound size 10 to now a 140 pound size 14.
It seems that what I'm doing is working, but I'd like to hear some tidbits from anyone who has gained out there as to what worked for you. What is it that made you say that you were okay with gaining weight?
Notwithstanding any health issues, I'd love to see her top 200 pounds someday. She's aware of all of this, and is still with me, so I feel good that I'm no longer hiding.
