threepiston
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Hi, noob here. 26 y/o male. When I was in grade school, I did'nt really like girls, but associated with heavier girls. In junior high, I started liking them when I realized they were developing. In high school, I always had a thing for girls with some extra weight, even the school big girl, who had always been big. (200 kids in HS) Looking back, now I know why I didn't like girls.
My favorite chippette was Eleanor from Alvin and the chipmunks. I always liked Garfield. I didn't realize that I liked 'em big until I found a Plumpers magazine sometime in junior high. I guess I've loved large ladies of all sizes since the early days of my life. I didn't really admit it until I met my girlfriend of four years now. She has always wanted to be big, bordering chubby, but didn't really grow until she met me. Now, about a hundred pounds later, I'm over this obsessive feeder thing, but still enjoy it when she overindulges. Gonna be my wife someday, she is! I have learned through all of this that I love her, small, medium, large, extra large, or even huge, but will never object to her gaining or losing. I support her in everything she does, and will always love her, no matter what size she is.
We almost broke up last week, and didn't know why. She was unhappy, and it made her unattractive to me. We talked, and found out that she thought I wanted her to lose weight, her thinking being that she had gotten too fat for me. I thought she wanted to lose weight, because she always talked like she thought she was fat, and wanted to lose weight.
Moral of the story? Fella's, communication is the most important thing in a relationship. If you don't have it, everything falls apart. Treat her like a queen, and don't push her to gain or lose. Just communicate, and encourage her in whatever she chooses.
Scott
My favorite chippette was Eleanor from Alvin and the chipmunks. I always liked Garfield. I didn't realize that I liked 'em big until I found a Plumpers magazine sometime in junior high. I guess I've loved large ladies of all sizes since the early days of my life. I didn't really admit it until I met my girlfriend of four years now. She has always wanted to be big, bordering chubby, but didn't really grow until she met me. Now, about a hundred pounds later, I'm over this obsessive feeder thing, but still enjoy it when she overindulges. Gonna be my wife someday, she is! I have learned through all of this that I love her, small, medium, large, extra large, or even huge, but will never object to her gaining or losing. I support her in everything she does, and will always love her, no matter what size she is.
We almost broke up last week, and didn't know why. She was unhappy, and it made her unattractive to me. We talked, and found out that she thought I wanted her to lose weight, her thinking being that she had gotten too fat for me. I thought she wanted to lose weight, because she always talked like she thought she was fat, and wanted to lose weight.
Moral of the story? Fella's, communication is the most important thing in a relationship. If you don't have it, everything falls apart. Treat her like a queen, and don't push her to gain or lose. Just communicate, and encourage her in whatever she chooses.
Scott
